"Truisms"
Love that is true lasts forever. - Unknown Mature love says: "I need you because I love you." - Erich Fromm 1900-1980 To be loved is to live forever in someone's heart - Unknown Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land, 1961, 34. Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
Jean Anouilh, Ardele, 1948, (2, translated by Lucienne Hill) Love is, above all, the gift of oneself.
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line - Lucille Ball
Some Symptoms
You get joy from making your love happy.
You have no interest in others who would normally attract you.
When you long to be in your love's arms every second of the day.
It actually feels like your feelings are physically coming from your heart.
When you think of your love and smile no matter how hard your day has been.
You see your love with all their imperfections, yet know they are perfect for you.
THE CORNERSTONES OF RELATIONSHIPS
CARING, RESPECT , COMMUNICATION, TRUTH , & COMMITMENT
For a relationship to have a solid foundation to build on you need:
- Caring about each other
- Respect for each others needs
- Communication between each other
- Truth with each other on all things big and small
- Commitment to each other and the relationship you have!
Simple, but truly needed in a sound relationship.
Love Pointers
When you say, "I love you," mean it!
Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
GOOD RELATIONSHIPS ARE GOOD FOR YOU
People in supportive, loving relationships:
Help each other practically as well as emotionally.
Are less likely to do things that are bad for their health.
Tend to be happier and healthier, satisfied with their lives.
Enjoy the good times and help each other through the tough ones.
BREAKING-UP CAN BE A HEALTH HAZARD
It usually takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to begin to put their lives back together again. It sometimes takes five years for individuals and families to get over the emotional pain and trauma. Many people can have serious health and emotional problems during this time.
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